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We convince ourselves that life will be better once we are married, have a baby, then another.

Then we get frustrated because our children are not old enough, and that all will be well when they are older.

Then we are frustrated because they reach adolescence and we must deal with them. Surely we’ll be happier when we grow out of the teen years.

We tell ourselves our life will be better when our spouse gets his/her act together, when we have a nicer car, when we can take a vacation, when we finally retire.

The truth is that there is no better time to be happy than right now.
If not, then what?
Your life will always be full of challenges. It is better to admit as much and to decide to be happy in spite of it all.

For the longest time, it seemed that life was about to start. Real life. But there was always some obstacle along the way, an ordeal to get through, some work to be finished, some tome to be given, and a bill to be paid. Then life would start. I finally came to understand that those obstacles were life.

That point of view helped me see that there isn’t any road to happiness. Happiness IS the road.

So, enjoy every moment.
stop waiting for school to end, for a return to school, to lose ten pounds, to gain ten pounds, for work to begin, to get married, for Friday evening, for Sunday morning, waiting for a new car, for your mortgage to be paid off, for spring, for summer, for fall, for winter, for the first or the fifteenth of the month, for your song to be played on the radio, to die, to be reborn…before deciding to be happy.

Happiness is a voyage, not a destination.

There is no better time to be happy than… NOW!

Live and enjoy the moment.

1- touch her waist
2- talk to her
3- share secrets
4- give her your jacket
5- kiss her slowly
6- hug her
7- hold her
8- laugh with her
9- invite her somewhere
10- let her be with you when you’re with your friends
11- smile with her
12- take pics with her
13- pull her onto your lap
14- when she says she loves you more, deny it. Fight back.
15- when her friends say they love her more, deny it. Fight back and hug her tight so she can’t get to her friends. It makes her feel loved.


16- always hug her and say I love you when you see her
17- kiss her unexpectedly
18- HUG HER FROM BEHIND, AROUND THE WAIST!!!
19- tell her she’s beautiful not sexy!
20- tell her the way you feel about her!
21- kiss her on the lips
22- DON’T ask her to buy you stuff. You buy her stuff.
23- TELL HER WHAT FEELS GOOD
24- make her feel loved
25- buy her small things that can make her feel special.
26- DON’T LIE TO HER.
27- DON’T CHEAT ON HER.
28- take her anywhere she wants
29- text message or call her in the morning and tell her have a good day at school, and how much you miss her


30- be there for her whenever she needs you, and even when she doesn’t need you, just be there so she’ll know that she can always count on you.


31- hold her close when she’s cold and she can hold you too.
32- when you are alone hold her close and kiss her.
33- kiss her on the tip of her nose; (it will give her the hint that you want to kiss her).


34- while in the movie, put your arm around her and then she will automatically put her head on your shoulder, then lean in and tilt her chin up and kiss her lightly.


35- don’t ever tell her to leave even jokingly or act like you’re mad. If she’s upset, comfort her is next time you are with her.


36- when people diss her, stand up for her.
37- look deep into her eyes and tell her you love her.
38- lay down under the stars and put her head on you chest so she can listen to the steady beat of your heart. Link you fingers together while you whisper to her as she rests her eyes and listens to you.


39- when walking next to each other grab her hand.
40- when you hug her, hold her in your arms as long as possible.
41- call her at night to wish her sweet dreams.
42- comfort her when she cries and wipe away her tears.
43- take her for long walks at night
44- dedicate a song to her.
45- ALWAYS REMIND HER HOW MUCH YOU LOVE HER. :)

Success

There is nothing as useless as doing efficiently that which should not be done at all. Always bear in mind that your own resolution to succeed is more important than any other one thing for success is not the key to happiness but the other way around. If you love what you are doing, you will be successful but try sometimes not to become a person of success but rather try to become a person of value.

In life struggles and succession rates, there are no gains without pains. The thing always happens that you really believe in; and the belief in a thing makes it happen. Believe in, “Yesterday I dared to struggle. Today I dare to win”.

Life is a succession of moments. To live each one is to succeed. Love the moment. Flowers grow out of dark moments. Therefore, each moment is vital. It affects the whole. Life is a succession of such moments and to live each, is to succeed. Remember that small opportunities are often the beginning of great enterprises.

“Only those who dare to fail greatly can ever achieve greatly.”

Doubutsu-Uranai

kath
06/06/1990

You are Blue Koala, who is extremely honest person, and will say things that come up in your mind straightly.
You are also active and very cheerful.
You also possess feminine attraction and have distinguished atmosphere.
You are very popular, and tend to be with lots of people.
You value your friends too.
But unlike your outlook, you don’t like to lose and are a strong-minded person.
You possess strong will-power, and are independent enough to carry things out without getting the help of the others.
You have great creativity sense and are much talented in this.
You act simply, but you possess complicated inner emotions.
You may be thought little bit eccentric.
You like to lead varied life, and try to change the atmosphere yourself too.
You can make quick decisions, and possess courage.
You are well liked by both men and women.
You have great sense of instinct and can get right at the point of things.
You can affect people as well.
You are very strict on money.
You will not go buying things on impulse.
Someone you love and your love life is what is most important to you in your life.
You possess great natural skill to manipulate men.
You should not rush into marriage after a passionate love.

** wow! hahha..yeah, it’s all well-said here **

check yours here –> http://world.doubutsu-uranai.com

Men are like….

For all those men who say, Why buy a cow when you can get milk for free. Here’s an update for you: Nowadays, 80% of women are against marriage, WHY? Because women realize it’s not worth buying an entire pig just to get a little sausage. Men are like….

1. Men are like Laxatives . They irritate the crap out of you.

2. Men are like Bananas . The older they get, the less firm they are.
3.
Men are like Weather . Nothing can be done to change them.
4.
Men are like Blenders You need One, but you’re not quite sure why.
5. Men are like
Chocolate Bars .. Sweet, smooth, & they usually head right for your hips.
6.
Men are like Commercials . You can’t believe a word they say.
7.
Men are like Department Stores … Their clothes are always 1/2 off!
8.
Men are like Government Bonds …. They take soooooooo long to mature.
9. Men are like
Mascara . They usually run at the first sign of emotion.
10.
Men are like Popcorn . They satisfy you, but only for a little while.
11.
Men are like Snowstorms . You never know when they’re coming, how many inches you’ll get or how long it will last.
12.
Men are likeLava Lamps . Fun to look at, but not very bright.
13.
Men are like Parking Spots All the good ones are taken, the rest are handicapped.

Reality of Fear

you’re not scared of the dark,
you’re scared of what’s in it..

you’re not scared of heights,
you’re afraid of falling..

you’re not afraid of people around you,

you’re just afraid of rejection..

you’re not afraid to love,

you’re just afraid of not being loved back..

and

you’re not afraid to try again,
you’re just afraid of getting hurt for the same reason.

if a GUY misses a girl

GIRL FACTS—

When a girl is mean to you after a break-up she wants you back but she is too Scared she’ll get hurt and knows you’re gone forever!

When you catch a girl glancing at you,
She wants you to look back and smile

When a girl bumps into your arm, while walking with you, She wants you to hold her hand

When she wants a hug,
She will just stand there

When u break a girl’s heart,
She still feels it when you run into each other 3 years later

When a girl is quiet,
Millions of things are running through her mind…

When a girl is not arguing,
She is thinking deeply,

When a girl looks at you with eyes full of questions,She is wondering how long you will be around

When a girl answers, “I’m fine,” after a few seconds,She is not fine at all

When a girl stares at you,
She is wondering why you are playing games

When a girl lays her head on your chest,
She is wishing for you to be hers forever

When a girl says she can’t live without you,
She has made up her mind that you are Her future

When a girl says, “I miss you,”
No one in this world can miss you more
Than that

if a GIRL misses a guy

Guy Facts—

When a guy calls you,
He wants to be with you

When a guy is quiet,
He’s listening to you…

When a guy is not arguing,
He realizes he’s wrong

When a guy says, “I’m fine” after a few minutes
He means it

When a guy stares at you,
He wishes you would care about him and wonders if you do

When you’re laying your head on a guy’s chest,
He has the world

When a guy calls/texts/comments/messages you everyday, He is in love

When a (good) guy tells you he loves you,
He means it

When a guy says he can’t live without you,
He’s with you till you’re done

When a guy says, “I miss you,”
He misses you more than you could have ever missed him or anything else

Satan’s Strategy

SATAN’S MEETING: (Read even if you’re busy)

Satan called a worldwide convention of demons.

In his opening address he said,

“We can’t keep Christians from going to church.”

“We can’t keep them from reading their Bibles and
knowing the truth.”

“We can’t even keep them from forming an intimate
relationship with their saviour.”

“Once they gain that connection with God, our power
over them is broken.”

“So let them go to their churches; let them have their
covered dish dinners, BUT steal their time, so they don’t have time to
develop a relationship with God..”

“This is what I want you to do,” said the devil:

“Distract them from gaining hold of their Saviour and
maintaining that vital connection throughout their day!”

“How shall we do this?” his demons shouted.

“Keep them busy in the non-essentials of life and invent
innumerable schemes to occupy their minds,” he answered.

“Tempt them to spend, spend, spend, and borrow, borrow,
borrow.”

“Persuade the wives to go to work for long hours and the
husbands to work 6-7 days each week, 10-12 hours a day, so they can afford
their empty lifestyles.”

“Keep them from spending time with their children.”

“As their families fragment, soon, their homes will
offer no escape from the pressures of work!”

“Over-stimulate their minds so that they cannot hear
that still, small voice.”

“Entice them to play the radio or cassette player
whenever they drive.” To keep the TV, VCR, CDs and their PCs going
constantly in their home and see to it that every store and restaurant in
the world plays non-biblical music constantly.”

“This will jam their minds and break that union with
God.”

“Fill the coffee tables with magazines and newspapers.”

“Pound their minds with the news 24 hours a day.”

“Invade their driving moments with billboards.”

“Flood their mailboxes with junk mail, mail order
catalogs, sweepstakes, and every kind of newsletter and promotional
offering free products, services and false hopes..”

“Keep skinny, beautiful models on the magazines and TV
so their husbands will believe that outward beauty is what’s important,
and they’ll become dissatisfied with their wives. ”

“Keep the wives too tired to love their husbands at
night.”

“Give them headaches too! ”

“If they don’t give their husbands the love they need,
they will begin to look elsewhere.”

“That will fragment their families quickly!”

“Give them Santa Claus to distract them from teaching
their children the real meaning of Christmas.”

“Give them an Easter bunny so they won’t talk about the real
essence of Jesus Christ’s existence and his teachings about love for God.”

“Even in their recreation, let them be excessive.”

“Have them return from their recreation exhausted.”

“Keep them too busy to go out in nature and reflect on
God’s creation. Send them to amusement parks, sporting events, plays,
concerts, and movies instead.”

“Keep them busy, busy, busy!”

“And when they meet for spiritual fellowship, involve
them in gossip and small talk so that they leave with troubled
consciences.”

“Crowd their lives with so many good causes they have no
time to seek power from God.”

“Soon they will be working in their own strength,
sacrificing their health and family for the good of the cause.”

“It will work!”

“It will work!”

It was quite a plan!

The demons went eagerly to their assignments causing
Christians everywhere to get busier and more rushed, going here and there.

Having little time for their God or their families.

Having no time to tell others about the power of God
to change lives.

I guess the question is, has the devil been successful
in his schemes?

You be the judge!!!!!

Does “BUSY” mean: B-eing U-nder S-atan’s Y-oke?!

I don’t think I know 10 people who would admit they love
God.

Do You Love Him?

1st UCAA Championship

wooh! yeah! tpos n dn sa wakas!!

a load off my shoulder :D

i just got back from my 1st UCAA championship tournament in swimming and boy, it was very tiring, so exhausting. i could still remember the last week’s training…training was like there was no competition at all. we didn’t had any mind sets or so.. well, except me.. haha.. yeah, yeah, sure it’s been a while though.. i missed it so much! the water, the pool, the crowd, the schools, coaches and teams. only speed will define the winner.

it was kind of weird at first when coach asked me if i was nervous or something for the competition, i paused for a while and asked myself then i immediately said “NOPE, NOT NERVOUS AT ALL” (taas ata ng pride ko eh noh?? haha). the thing was, i always had the mind set of “push your limits for one’s peak can be attained in hard work” and so it is. :) though it didn’t happened (yet!) but soon i’ll be :)
anyway, EAC Generals won 25 medals in many events. a day filled of excitement and a bit of quixotic moments but hey! it was fun. all of us did a great job! a day i won’t forget. i’ll those schools again next year for another heat in the pool :]

after the competition i can say that the great spirit is not perfect though it has a good side and a bad side but sometimes the bad side gives us more knowledge than the good side. (right guys?? :D)

and so i’d like to thank coach cza for the opportunity she gave me (kht aq lng sa varsity ang d nag try out..haha),

thanks jofel for watching out for me :)

to kuya jamie who tuned me up a bit :D

eliz and ana for companionship :P

dan and oliver for the cheers :D

timmy, dennis and kim for the assists

and moi, thanks a million for signing me up for the team and once again showing me that swimming is really one of my forte :)

thanks guys! and so, our next stop! WNCAA and NCRAA, gud luck to us! GO GENERALS!! :D

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